5 STEPS TO TRUE HAPPINESS

CHASE YOUR FEARS

It is normal for us to run from the things that make us uncomfortable – ironically comfort is what we should be running from. What is a fear? Well I’m not pulling out Webster’s Dictionary, but from my understanding a fear is something stopping you from doing the things you really want to do. With that definition, I don’t believe fear should have any place in your life.

STOP DOING THINGS YOU HATE

Imagine this – we have the freedom of choice in this life, but most of us WILLINGLY CHOOSE to continue doing things we genuinely HATE. Then we complain. But continue doing it. Why are you punishing yourself? It took me a while to understand this, but I think I finally get it now – it is all due to the first paragraph above. We do the things we hate to hide from the things we fear. If you can overcome the first paragraph, this stage will shortly follow.

THE WINNER’S CIRCLE

No negativity. No slacking. No jealousy. All things prohibited in the Winner’s Circle. What is a Winner’s Circle you ask? It’s a solid group of people that you consistently speak to on a regular basis all working toward a common goal – not to be confused for the same goal. We all want to attain different things, but a common goal should be shared among all of you, whatever that may be. An example of a common goal in my Winner’s Circle is to be able to travel and document life – our personal goals and paths to reach that common goal may differ.

NO MORE SEARCHING

Searching kills you. What are you looking for? Why are you actively on the hunt for love? You can’t find love – stop reading stupid tweets and memes. Love is an energy exchange that cannot be caught – it will come TO YOU when you are in the right place to receive it.

CONTROL WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL

One of the worst things you can do is stress over things entirely out of your control – it will eat away at you from the inside and ruin EVERYTHING you’re working on above. Control what you can control. You can’t make people do things. You can’t stop things from happening. But you CAN control how you act or react to the things happening around you.